The First of the Lasts

It has begun.  The first of the last things we’ll do in Australia.  It seems like just a few months ago that we were doing all of our firsts.  I cannot believe we’ve been here for almost a year.  How time has flown!

Today marks the last week of term and the last week both Mike and the boys will be at school.  That means the last week of wearing uniforms, too!  It will also be a week of last tennis practices/comps, last marking and teaching of Australian students, Scout meetings, skating coffee club meetings, soccer practices and assemblies.

It is the beginning to the end of an incredible journey.  In three weeks we leave Newcastle to begin our slow journey home.  This does not mean it is the last time we’ll be in Australia.  Nor the last time we see many of our friends.  In fact, I think it marks another first.  The first of many Australian goodbyes!

Aussie Slang:

Duvielacker:  thingamajig

Bogan:  kind of like a redneck, a slacker with low social status

Reef and Rainforest Part 2: The Rainforest!

feeding a baby kangaroo

feeding a baby kangaroo

Beautiful fan palms

Beautiful fan palms

Swinging off of the trees in Cow Bay

Swinging off of the trees in Cow Bay

We arrived back in Cairns to a lovely evening, with beautiful lanterns lit up amongst the trees on the promenade.  That made the walk back to the Rydges Esplanade easier to take (or maybe it was the treat meal at Macca’s??).  The next day we made our way up to the Daintree area.  We stopped in Port Douglas briefly—what a beautiful beach, with such warm water!

We finally arrived at our bed and breakfast in the Daintree, which was also a zoo— such a highlight for the kids.  They got to touch and feed the kangaroos/wallabies, who ran wild on the property and were our buddies on our way up to breakfast.  They also had crocodiles, dingoes, a wombat, and a cassowary, which were not running wild, thankfully, and a bird section with owls, parrots, kookaburras, etc.

We drove up towards Cape Tribulation for a day, and enjoyed the rainforest.  We opted not to pay for the Daintree Discovery Centre walks, and did our own (I know, we’re cheap.  No wait, we’re just on a budget.  Yeah, that’s it).  Just down the road from the Centre are several great walks in the forest, some with boardwalks and one on a lovely trail.  We saw amazing trees, plants, and flowers and swung off of strangler figs’ big tree branch vines.  No Cassowary sightings.  We were disappointed about that, but it might have been a good thing.  They are large birds and have been known to attack if threatened!  We did see a cool lizard, though.

We went on several other walking tracks and enjoyed the mangroves, big ferns and other flora.  Took a quick dip in the water by Cow Bay and Tobias had his first Huntsman spider sighting.  On the back of the outhouse door!  Poor kid, he still is traumatized, and won’t go into an outhouse or anything resembling one.  We saw Cape Tribulation and I was able to take a trip down memory lane about my trip up here almost 20 years ago.  Not that much has changed, really!  The Bat House was closed when we got there—what  a shame.  I enjoyed feeding the rescued bats fruit when I was here last, and looked forward to showing the boys the centre.

The Daintree is still one of my favourite parts of Oz.  There’s something about the lush scenery being so close to the beaches that make it such a beautiful place to be.

Cassowary!

Cassowary!

the cool lizard

the cool lizard

One of our friends on our way to breakfast

One of our friends on our way to breakfast

Aussie slang:

Macca’s:  MacDonalds!

Ute:  Utility vehicle.  It is not, and I repeat, not, a truck!  It does look like a large pick-up truck with a cargo trailer in the rear.

“Too easy”:  what you say when it is not a problem, eg “can you pick up my kids from tennis?” “of course, too easy!”

Reef and Rainforest, Part 1

Sunset from Fitzroy Island

Sunset from Fitzroy Island

Gus, the resident monitor lizard

Gus, the resident monitor lizard

Fitzroy Island

Waaay back when, in September 2013, we spent most of our first school holidays in the Cairns area of Northern Queensland.   We chose to go at this time to avoid jellyfish season, typhoons and supreme humidity.  Nevertheless, the heat and humidity hit us as soon as we came out of the airport, even at 7PM.  The hotel hit the spot, though, with a cool-looking pool and tennis courts.  We checked out the pool right away and Tobias and Mike even played a little tennis.   We then ventured out to check out the night market and it was fun to see the kids get excited over buying their first Aussie souvenirs!

After a big buffet breakfast, which we needed for our long, hot walk to the ferry terminal (note to self:  make sure you calculate how far a walk with luggage is really going to be), our next stop was Fitzroy Island!  We arrived at the resort, the only hotel on the island, to find out we had been “upgraded”!  Yay!  Hmm, not sure I would call it an upgrade–it was a few minutes closer to the beach but that was about it.     So we downgraded and got our original room, which was much bigger, more luxurious and came with a real kitchen full of stainless appliances which we needed for all of the food we had schlepped along.

There was great snorkelling around the island.  We saw turtles, beautiful coloured fish and coral, and I even swam close to a spotted stingray!  It was great to see Tobias get over his fear and enjoy his first snorkelling adventures.  Lukas preferred to dig on the beach and jump in the waves.  We made the short trek down to Nudey’s Beach, and it was sooo worth it.  Beautiful sand beach, cool snorkelling and fewer people.  No, not naked people.  We were sorry we didn’t check it out earlier.

Even though it was pretty hot, we hiked up to the summit on the island (maybe we should have gotten up earlier?).  It was a little hard on the boys going up, but they made it and then ran back down.   At the end of our trek, we ran into Gus, the big, local monitor lizard, as he sunned himself.

We went on a glass bottom boat tour, which wasn’t really worth the money.  It’s hard to look down for a long time on a boat—it makes you seasick!  We cruised along the same spots where we had been snorkelling already, and didn’t even see some of the amazing things we saw.  Having said that, it gave Lukas the chance to see blue coral and some cool fish, so we were happy about that.

Overall, I would say our trip to Fitzroy Island was a success, in spite of the pricey hotel.  We saw beautiful sunsets, amazing underwater sights, I found heaps of sea glass hidden amongst the coral on one beach, and the kids loved the free movies and table tennis (as did Mike)!

Aussie slang:

“Exy”:  short for expensive

“Bottle Shop”:  beer, wine and liquor store (they even have drive through ones here!)

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Our first view of Nudey’s Beach

fish seen while snorkelling

fish seen while snorkelling

Turtle!

Turtle!

Redback spiders and other little critters

Redback spider in our yard

Redback spider in our yard

Aha, it finally happened, we found a redback spider close to home!  She was hiding underneath a rattan chair in our yard, which had been overturned because it had gotten soaked in the rain.  It was a good thing we did find her, as she had a whole bunch of babies in cocoons getting ready to hatch.  Suffice it to say, she is no longer with us, and neither are her babies.   We really didn’t want a family of redbacks living in the children’s play area.  No, it wasn’t really that scary, more intriguing.  Since then, we have found 2 more, which were both living in our BBQ cover.  EWWW!

We have yet to find a Huntsman spider in the house (knock on wood!) but we did recently find one on an outside wall.  The worst part is when they disappear.  Where has it gone???   Not in my car, I hope!  (I know, I know, they’re harmless!  But they’re big and scary looking!)

There are plenty of other outside spiders around, though.  They are very quick to build webs around here.  The only ones we have to deal with inside are the Daddy Long-Legs.  They’re just annoying and make the corners of the house dirty, especially the ones I cannot reach!

Other than spiders, we have had to deal with other little critters, which are all just a way of life here in Oz (snakes have not been an issue, thankfully!!):

Ants:  little lines of them in the bathroom, mudroom and kitchen.  We even found a whole pile of them in a kitchen drawer, once.  Yuck!

Cockroaches:  the best way to find them is to turn on the light in a room at night.  They go scurrying, and still make us jump and squeal when they do.  We’ve found them in the mudroom, living room, bedrooms, bathroom, and kitchen.  Wait, that’s the whole house!   So I guess that means we’ve found them everywhere.   Now I’m not talking about an infestation, just the odd one every now and then (we are talking about a period of 8 ½ months here).   The worst place we’ve found them has to be the dishwasher—I’ve found both alive and dead ones in there.  Ewwwwwwww!

Flies:  what can I say about them other than there are lots of them around and they are annoying!  They are extremely persistent and generally not phased by our attempts to shoo them away.  If they do go away, they come right back.  They love to just hang out on food.

Mozzies:  just like anywhere else, you notice them the most in the evening and in wooded, wet areas.  Screens are an essential part of living as is mozzie spray!  Fortunately, we usually find them outside, unless someone forgot to close the screen door!

Aussie Slang:

“Aeroguard”:  common brand of mozzie spray

“Aussie salute”:  what you see someone doing when they’re waving their hands in front of their face trying to keep the flies away.

“Bunyip”:  from Aboriginal mythology, a dark mythical creature thought to live in swamps or rivers, kind of like a Yeti mixed with Ogopogo or Lochness Monster.

Some other big spider living close to the bottom of the eave of our roof

Some other big spider living close to the bottom of the eave of our roof

Cross Country Carnival

Run, Lukas, run!

Run, Lukas, run!

Two weeks ago, the boys had their Cross Country Carnival at school.  This is one of several sports carnivals the school has every year—they also have a swimming carnival and athletics carnival, all of which happen during school time.  Everyone is expected to participate to the best of their ability, and in the case of cross country, whether that means you walk the whole way or sprint it.  They also are expected to cheer on their team and display good sportsmanship to everyone.

When children come to Wallsend South, they are put into one of four different “houses”—Hunter, Allyn, Goulburn and Paterson.  Siblings are put into the same house.  This will be their house for the rest of their years at the school.  Each house has a female and male house captain and assistant captain, all of whom are year 6 students who have been voted in by the students.  Each house has its own colour, which the kids can wear instead of their school uniform on carnival days.  During the carnivals, the houses get points for a variety of things, including the numbers of students who participate and for sportsmanship behaviour.  I think they also get points for placing in the top ten for each race, but don’t hold me to that.

The course is pretty long and a little hilly.  Students are grouped according to age.  Students aged 8-10 run 2km, while students aged 11-12 run 3km.  Having recently just run only 1km myself, I was very impressed with how hard the kids were running, especially as it was a pretty warm and humid day!  The kids do train at school during gym time for a few weeks, so they have an idea of the course and what their limits are around walking/running it.

The top four finishers move on to compete at the Zone trials.  Most schools in NSW would have held a cross country carnival, and our students will compete against the students from schools in our area at Zone.  Those who succeed then move on to Regionals, and then on to State.  Tobias just missed the cutoff for Zone (he came 7th) and is a replacement in case someone cannot make it.  Lukas finished in the top ten, a bit of a surprise to us as he told us that he usually walked much of the course!

Aussie Slang:

“Suck it up, princess”:  yes, you know what it means!  It would be said to males and females, and is sort of a cultural norm that kids need to just deal with stuff.

“Heaps”:  as in ‘lots’.  They love to use the term heaps here!!

Happy Autumn!

March 1 has come and gone, so it is officially autumn in Australia.  It is not fall.  I found this out in Lukas’ class last year when I was helping him to describe Canadian Thanksgiving, and explained that it happens in our fall, which is their spring.  The teacher helped to wipe the blank looks off of many faces by clarifying that what we sometimes call fall is autumn.   Oops, funny how you get used to “slang”.

The nights are cooler—thank goodness!, the days are feeling shorter already (most noticeably with the darker mornings) and soccer season has started.  The mandarin oranges are growing again on our tree.  It even rained quite a bit on the weekend!  Definitely all indicators of autumn.  Temperatures are still warm, though; we’re talking around 24 degrees Celsius during the day.  It’s all relative, isn’t it?!  I have certainly acclimatized to the weather here.  I was wearing a fleece yesterday morning and I’m pretty sure it was in the low 20’s.  Who would have thought?

Daylight savings will end on April 6 at 3AM (exactly).  This will put us back on the same time as Queensland, who along with Western Australia and the Northern Territory, do not observe it (although they all have at different points in time in history).

Unfortunately, if it is autumn, it also means that we only have a few months left on our exchange.  It feels like time is flying now.  It seems similar to having a baby—the first few months seem to crawl by and then it all just seems to go faster and faster as the kids grow up.  We have made a list of what we want to do and see before we leave in July.  Some of it will happen, some will just have to wait until the next trip Down Under :-).

Latest Aussie Slang

“Acka-Dacka”:  what they call AC/DC  (yes, as in the band)

“bench”:  counter (as in the part of the kitchen upon which you make food)  I had a hilarious conversation with my girlfriend about her kitchen reno and the misunderstanding of what a bench was…

“horse poo”:  yes, it is what you think it is.  It’s quite funny to see signs people put outside of their houses/farms advertising it, instead of using the term “manure”.  My boys certainly get a good laugh out of it!

Happy 3 Month Anniversary!

As of October 8, we have been on our exchange for 3 months.  Time sure flies when you’re having fun!

Somebody asked me recently if it has been all that we hoped.  I had to pause and think about it before I replied.  I think it is a question we truly will not be able to answer until we are at the end of the exchange.  We certainly love the weather, the beaches and the easy-going vibe.   I guess I realized that I was not sure what my hopes for the exchange had been.  Was it just to experience another culture and have the opportunity to explore another part of the world?  Or was there more to it than that?  It couldn’t be just enjoying a year off of work, could it?  Hmm, something upon which I need to reflect.

One of the biggest things (for me, especially) has been adjusting to living in someone else’s house.  I’m sure it is the same for our exchange family.  There’s different toys, different furniture, different kitchen stuff, a much smaller space.  Yes, you deal with it knowing that it is time-durated but I still miss little things, like certain baking/cooking stuff and my little laundry room (anyone who knows my quirky love of laundry will understand)!  Oh, and the ability to entertain large groups of people.  Don’t get me wrong, it’s not ruining the experience at all, it’s just something to own up to.

School was the biggest thing for the boys, of course.  They have done a tremendous job of showing their resilience—it’s not easy moving to a new school in the middle of the school year, never mind to a whole new country!   Tobias’ biggest challenge was adapting to the loud school bells—they use a siren-like one as well as an emergency type bell to sound all of the transitions (the bells go off 7 times a day!).  For Lukas, it probably has been the emphasis upon reading and writing; the latter, in particular, is not his strong point.  However, both boys have coped well, and the teachers/school staff have been supportive in helping all of us adjust to the new routines and expectations.  It is interesting to see the focus on behaviour at school—there are high expectations for kids to sit down and do their work quietly. I’m not sure how much support there is for those children who struggle for whatever reason to do that.

Another piece that has stood out has been building relationships.  It’s easy enough to meet people, but really getting to know them takes time and work.  Again, it’s not a bad thing, just the reality of moving somewhere new.  The boys have been able to build friendships through school, and Mike has gotten to know co-workers well at work.  Luckily, we have met another family with children of similar ages with whom we spend a lot of time.  We share similar values, and I know I we have met life-long friends.  Being able to share in so many experiences together has made all of the difference, especially to me.  I also have been lucky to connect with several of the mums from school—not only are they friendly and helpful (they put up with lots of questions from me!), but lots of fun!

On that note, whether or not the exchange is all that we hope it would be, it is an experience we will never forget, one that we will not regret and we will leave with good friends, good memories and probably, a lot of sand in our suitcase.

A little bit of home on the beach in Queensland

A little bit of home on the beach in Queensland

More Aussie terms:

“Struth”:  Exclamation, kind of like “whoa” or “my goodness”.

“Penalty Notice:  What comes in the mail to tell you that you have a speeding ticket.

“Snag”:  a sausage, usually cooked on the barbie.

School’s in (but not for long)!

In honour of back to school time back home, I thought I’d write about some of our experiences of going to a public primary school in Newcastle (primary school is from Kindergarten to Year/Grade 6).  Here we are winding down towards our first school break at the end of this week.  Two weeks off!!!

One similarity to our school in Vancouver is its student population:  550ish.  It is one of the larger primary schools in Newcastle.  It doesn’t feel that big, though, because the buildings are spread out around varying outdoor spaces.  There is a library and a computer room, and each classroom uses a SmartBoard for lessons.  No real gymnasium, though!  They do have a carpeted hall but generally they do sports outside.  They have 3 bands, 2 choirs, and numerous school sports teams.  There is a lot of grassy field space on the school grounds, which is well-used throughout the day (I hear it all when I’m at home as we live next door!).  Too bad we cannot access it after school hours; it is totally fenced in and the gate is locked, so as to prevent vandalism.  They have chickens and a garden, too!

A few other observations:

Uniforms—they’re great for getting dressed in the morning and to identify kids on a field trip.  However, they do cost a bit of money, especially when items get lost and you have to buy new ones!  They are required to wear a school hat to go outside (if they don’t have one, they only can stay in the covered areas), and they also are supposed to wear only black or white shoes (Tobias got in trouble for his shoes once).  So far we’ve spent about $140 on uniform wear, including second hand items (which are reasonably priced).  We’ll need to buy a few more things as the kids grow, too. The other issue that cropped up was trying to find my boys outside when there are 550 some-odd kids wearing the exact same thing!  That was when they wore different shoes, so that made it easier.

School times—they’re pretty much the same.  The slight differences are recess and lunch:  recess is at 11AM but lunch is not until 1PM!  I guess the later times do give the kids more time in the morning when they’re at their best to do their work.  My kids haven’t complained about the change anyhow.

School fees—and I thought we paid a lot back home!  It appears that every term there are fees, which cover things like supplies, books, web resources (for spelling, math, etc) and some field trips.  In July we paid $40 for the boys as well as $70 more for other fees from the previous terms for items they were still using or doing (meaning the whole cost was higher).   I’m curious how much fees for the last term will be.  There may be extra costs on top of those fees, too, depending upon other excursions.  For example, Lukas is going to be taking swimming lessons during school time in the next term (good thing!) but it costs each student $45.

Canteen—now here’s a great thing!  Every day for lunch and recess the canteen is open from which students can order food/drinks.   You can pre-order each morning or buy at the window.  They have quite the menu to choose from:  healthy snacks, salads, pizza, chicken chippies (chicken fingers), sandwiches, popsicles, etc.  It is quite the production though, as it depends upon parent volunteers.  I’ve spent one day volunteering so far, and it really does take most of the morning to organize the orders.  (Those poor kids, I didn’t know what half of the things were, where they were located, how much they cost, and a couple of the students I couldn’t understand!).

Assemblies:  twice a week, there are short assemblies.  The first one, on Monday mornings, is for the whole school, where a rundown of all that is happening that week occurs, and special acknowledgements are given out.  The other assemblies are age specific and in those, little performances happen and awards are presented.  All students get several awards throughout the year; they are acknowledged for things such as improvements in academics and for positive social skills.  Both boys received an award for settling into school so well; Lukas received another for “consistent concentration during reading groups” and Tobias for “working well in Focus on Reading groups”.

Sport—If it is Friday, that means sport!  Kids get to learn about and practice a new sport for about an hour or so in the afternoon or in the morning of every Friday, depending upon their age.  The boys have played volleyball, soccer, Frisbee, cricket amongst some other games and sport.  This is in addition to regular PE times.

There always is something going on at school:  in the past weeks, there has been a disco, a Sports Carnival for the K-2’s, talent show (Tobias was in an act called, “Australia’s Got No Talent), spelling bee and Tobias joined the Drumming Club.  I would say there is something fun for everyone.  Tobias says he loves school here and looks forward to it every day!

And to keep up your Aussie slang:

“Party pie”:  little meat pie.  They sell them everywhere!

“COLA”: covered learning area at school—very important in this sunny climate!

“arvo”:  afternoon

Father’s Day

Gosh, life has become pretty busy!  It has been a while since I last posted.  In the interim, Lukas has become a Joey with Scouts, we have taken a weekend trip to Sydney, spent an afternoon in the Hunter Valley and went to both a footy game and an ice hockey game.  Tobias is taking tennis lessons and I have started going to group personal training sessions where they make me tone and strengthen relentlessly for an hour.  Despite the pain, I have to admit, I do love it.

This Sunday, September 1, is Father’s Day.  Here in Australia, anyhow!  Mike gets to celebrate two Father’s Days this year, but technically none next year.  So, yes, we are celebrating it again!

At school the P&C (Parents and Citizens group), the equivalent to our PAC or a PTA, put on a Father’s Day Stall.  Gifts were bought from a warehouse, like water bottles, ball caps, car washing kits, etc, and were put out like a store for the kids to see.  All of the classes went to the stall and the kids could buy one thing for $5, and then the presents were wrapped for them to bring home.  No other class time spent on art or some kind of present!  Lukas has told me that they were making a card, however.

Today the P&C also hosted a breakfast BBQ for the dads—bacon and eggs were cooked up and put on rolls.  A very classic kind of Australian breakfast as far as I can tell.  That and a “sausage sizzle”, where hot dogs or sausages are cooked on the barbie and also put on a roll.

We head up to Port Stephens, a little beach area about 45 minutes away, for the weekend (said with an upwards inflection on “end”).  We’re going to have a nice little cabin to relax in, and we’ll be enjoying the 21-25 degree (Celsius), sunny weather.   We might be the only ones, but we’ll be in our swimsuits, or “cozzies” (short for swim costumes)!  It is nearly spring, equivalent to our mid-March.  With that in mind, we’re pretty sure we are going to swelter when summer really comes.

As it is almost spring, the birds have been nesting.  And that means it is magpie season in Australia.  Unfortunately for Mike, that means some of the more aggressive male Magpies are starting to protect their territories, and “swoop” or dive-bomb him as he bikes by certain areas.  He has been hit three times already, and got little cuts on his ears from beaks hitting them on 2 of the incidents.  It used to be only one area where they were swooping, so he changed his bike route, but has recently had another incident in a different area.  Many cyclists put zap straps on their helmets (see photo) to prevent the swooping–guess what Mike is going to get as a present for Father’s Day?!

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Whether or not it is Father’s Day where you are, enjoy the weekend!

.PS  no scary spider sightings yet.

I’ve decided to include new Aussie terms on every post–enjoy!

“dibber dobber”:  tattletale

“Temporary Australian (or whatever nationality you are)”:  someone who partakes in a high risk activity where death is a possibility, as in you only will be on this earth temporarily